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Monthly Archives: October 2014

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Post #4 – The Most Precious Commodity

First of all, I just want to say thank you to all of you who are reading this. I started this blog to have a little fun and give a little insight into our crazy life. I thought that if a few people read it and thought it was mildly entertaining, I’d consider that a huge success. I never thought in a million years that I would receive some of the awesome feedback and encouragement that some of you have given me over the last few weeks. I don’t know how far this blog will go, or if I can even live up to your expectations, but either way I feel so lucky to have you guys in my corner. I just hope I can keep this interesting enough to make you want to check back in for the next post. And with that…

Today’s post: The Most Precious Commodity

Things move fast, we all have datebooks bursting at the seams and we never have enough damn time for anything! So it stands to reason that one of the scariest things about having a big family would be “THERE’S NO TIME!!!” <Jack Bauer Voice> .

Based on my conversations  Continue reading →

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So you’ve got a lot of kids. You must be broke.

This wasn’t going to be my next post (I initially wanted to write about how having more kids actually opens up your free time) but I got a lot of feedback about the last post, specifically the #5 reaction to hearing I’m having another child  – “that’s irresponsible”. The driver behind that reaction was all financial fear for me and my kids – so I thought I’d take a detour and address that specific common concern about having a big family.

“kids are so expensive”

“you’ll never have any money” Continue reading →

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Top Ten Reactions to Baby #6

While I’ve tinkered with the idea of starting a blog before, this topic was the one that got me off the couch.

I want to be clear- the purpose of this post is not to shame people for expressing their true initial reaction to the news of us having another baby. No reaction has ever really upset me, but some of these reactions struck me as incredibly interesting, strange and funny. I don’t view any reaction as an indictment on any individual person, quite the opposite actually. I see these responses as a little window into how society views a big family in 2014. The reason I say that –  typically if you think society will chastise you for making a comment, you don’t make that comment. But when you believe what you are about to say is something that is in line with what the current culture believes, then you don’t filter. And that’s been the reason why I’ve referred to these reactions as the most interesting social experiment I’ve ever been a part of.

To be clear,  90% of what we hear is very genuine and supportive. This post is all about the other 10% that opens up the blinds into how the masses think about a dude in his early 30’s with six kids. And unless you are on the fringe of the social landscape  (alcoholic, criminal, everyday scumbag), you just don’t get that type of honest feedback so freely from friends and strangers alike.

A little history…

When you tell people you are having your FIRST baby, the reactions are awesome! Laura and I tried to conceive our first child for almost a year before she finally got pregnant. During that uncertain time we had tons of support from family and friends, so when that test finally came back positive we were super excited to spread the news. The Joy and excitement on the faces of everyone we told was tremendous. I can vividly remember my mom jumping higher than I have ever seen a women jump. To be honest, I didn’t even know she knew how to jump. It’s almost certainly the most excited I have ever seen her in her entire life.

Expectedly, when we announced we were having twins (children #2 and #3) the excitement dialed down a bit, but the responses were all still very positive and comforting.

Fast forward to when we got pregnant with Ben, our 4th child. Continue reading →

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My First Post

Hello and thank you for coming here to check out my blog!

I decided to start this blog for a few reasons:

1. I like to write, but outside of a Facebook status update, or 140 character tweet, I never really get the chance to write anything that anyone else gets to see. As I’ve had more and more kids, I’ve begun to get identified as that dude with all the kids. So, when looking for a topic I figure- why not embrace it. I find myself explaining my life 1on1 with people everyday, so why not do it with everyone all at once.

I hope you find it interesting.

2. When you tell people that you’re expecting your 6th child, the reactions you get are absolutely amazing, rude, hilarious, sad and encouraging- sometimes all at once. This has been the funniest social experiment I’ve ever been a part of. It’s just too darn funny to not share.

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